Saturday 23 February 2008

ခုန္ထြက္မွာလား၊ အေသခံမလား

လူသိမ်ား ေက်ာ္ၾကားတဲ့ ဥပမာေလး တစ္ခုပါ။ ငယ္ငယ္ကတည္းက ၾကားဖူး မွတ္ယူထားတဲ့ ပံုျပင္ေလး တစ္ခုပါ။

“ဖား တစ္ေကာင္ကို၊ ပူေနတဲ့ ေရေႏြးအိုးထဲ ထည့္လိုက္ရင္ အဲဒီ ဖားဟာ ခုန္ထြက္လာမယ္။ ဒါေပမယ့္ အဲဒီဖားကို ေရေအးထဲထည့္ ၿပီးရင္ ေအာက္က မီးၿမိွဳက္လိုက္ရင္ အဲဒီဖားဟာ ေသတဲ့အထိ ေရပူထဲမွာ ေနသြားတယ္။”

အခု နအဖက ကၽြန္ေတာ္တို႔ ျမန္မာႏိုင္ငံက ျပည္သူတရပ္လံုးကို ေရေအးထဲထည့္ၿပီး ေအာက္က မီးၿမိွဳက္ဖို႔ လုပ္ေနပါတယ္။ ကၽြန္ေတာ္တို႔ ျပည္သူေတြ လူတိုင္း လူတိုင္းမွာ အခုကတည္းက ခုန္ထြက္ရမယ္ဆိုတာ သိထားသင့္ပါတယ္။ ငါကေတာ့ မပူေသးလို႔ ဆိုတဲ့ အေၾကာင္းျပခ်က္က မလံုေလာက္ေတာ့ပါဘူး။ ျပန္ေအးသြားမလားဆိုၿပီး ေစာင့္ၾကည့္ဦးမယ္ဆိုရင္လည္း မၾကာခင္ ေသမွာပါပဲ။ ဒီေတာ့ ဘာလုပ္ၾကမွာလဲ။

ေအာက္က သတင္းက ပါတဲ့ အခ်က္ေတြ မွားတယ္လို႔ ဘယ္သူ ျငင္းႏိုင္ပါသလဲ။ ျမန္မာႏိုင္ငံက လူတိုင္း အဲဒီလို မိန္းကေလးေတြ မလုပ္ခ်င္ပဲ ခပ္ေပါေပါနဲ႔ ခႏၶာကိုယ္ေရာင္းစားၿပီး ဝမ္းစာရွာေနရတာ အားလံုး သိပါတယ္။ ... အဲဒါဟာ ဘာေၾကာင့္ပါလဲ။ နအဖ ေပါက္တက္ရ စီမံခန္႔ခြဲမႈေတြေၾကာင့္ အမ်ိဳးေကာင္း သမီးေတြ ဘဝ ပ်က္ေနရတာပါ။ အဲဒါ ငါနဲ႔ မဆိုင္ဘူး၊ ငါ့ မပူေသးလို႔ ခုန္မထြက္ေသးဘူး၊ ရသေလာက္ေနမယ္ဆိုရင္ေတာ့ ေနာက္ အလွည့္ဟာ ခင္ဗ်ား အလွည့္ ျဖစ္လာႏိုင္တယ္ဆိုတာ သိထားသင့္ပါတယ္။

တကယ္လို႔ အဆိုပါ မိန္းကေလးထဲက မိန္းကေလးတစ္ေယာက္က ကၽြန္ေတာ့္ညီမ၊ ခင္ဗ်ား ညီမ ျဖစ္ေနမယ္ဆို ဘယ္လို ခံစားရမလဲ။

ငါတို႔က ခ်မ္းသာတာပဲ ငါ့ မိသားစု မျဖစ္လာဘူး မထင္ပါနဲ႔။ နအဖ လက္ထဲမွာ ဘယ္သူမွ မၿမဲပါဘူး။ ဥပေဒ မရွိတဲ့ နအဖ လက္ထဲမွာ ခင္ဗ်ား ခ်မ္းသာမႈဟာ ေနာက္ေန႔မွာ သူတို႔ ပစၥည္း အျဖစ္ အခ်ိန္မေရြး ဒျမတိုက္ယူသြားႏိုင္တယ္ဆိုတာ မေမ့ပါနဲ႔။

အခု ငါတို႔ဟာ ေရေအးထဲ ထည့္ၿပီး ေအာက္က မီးၿမွိဳက္ခံေနရၿပီဆိုတာ သိပါ။ သတိရွိပါ။ ဒါေၾကာင့္ တည္ၿငိမ္ စိတ္ခ်ရတဲ့ စနစ္၊ တရားဥပေဒဆိုတာေတြ ရွိလာေအာင္ နအဖ အာဏာရွင္ စနစ္ကို ေခ်မႈန္းတဲ့ ေနရာမွာ ျပည္သူတရပ္လံုး အသိ၊ သတိ ရွိရွိနဲ႔ ပါဝင္ၾကပါလို႔ ကၽြန္ေတာ္တိုက္တြန္းလိုပါတယ္။

ၿပိဳင္တူတြန္းလွ်င္ေရြ႕ႏိုင္ပါသည္။ Unity To Victory

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As Myanmar's economy crumbles, prostitution lures young women

YANGON (AFP) - Cherry and Kay Kay walk into room Number Two of a Yangon karaoke bar, where a man waits alone for them on a brown leather sofa.

"Come on, girls. Sing, please," he says, as they flick the karaoke machine to a Myanmar folk song they hope he likes.

The scene may not be uncommon in many parts of Asia, but was until recently rare here in isolated Myanmar, where economic desperation is increasingly pushing young women into a sex trade that hides behind the facade of karaoke bars and massage parlours.

At the bars, known locally as KTVs for "karaoke television," young women in their late teens and early 20s entertain clients in private air-conditioned rooms furnished with sofas and karaoke equipment.

Waiters enter only when customers order food and drinks, or if the women ring a bell to alert the management that a client is getting out of hand.

Workers at KTVs say sex is not necessarily on offer, but they add that in the private rooms boundaries can be vague.

"It's hard to control men in this kind of room," 22-year-old Kay Kay says.

"They are so wild when they get drunk. I need to hold both his hands to protect myself. Sometimes I need to ring the bell to call for help from the waiters," she says.

Customers vary from teenagers to adults. Sometimes they come with friends, occasionally even with family, to venues that blur the line between casual entertainment and brothels.

Cherry and Kay Kay are among 20 girls working in their KTV bar, located near Yangon's landmark Shwedagon Pagoda, one of the Buddhist country's holiest shrines. Ostensibly they are hostesses, paid to keep customers company, encourage them to buy drinks, and to sing for them.

Prostitution is illegal in Myanmar, but it began to take root underground after the ruling junta abandoned socialism for a market economy in 1996.

Myanmar is one of the world's poorest countries, where even urban professionals scrape out a living on less than a dollar a day. Salaries for civil servants, for example, start at about 20,000 kyats (16 dollars).

Many industries have been decimated by decades of economic mismanagement by the military, coupled with the effects of Western sanctions imposed over the regime's failure to make good on promises of democratic reforms.

Cherry says she decided to work in the karaoke bar after quitting her low-wage job at a garment factory.

The eldest daughter in her family, Cherry was taken out of school before she reached her teens so her family could afford to send her brothers to school.

She then started working in the factory, but quit after discovering that she could earn more in tips in one night at the karaoke bar than she earned in a month at her old job.

Cherry and Kay Kay say they both grew up in broken families, and have not told any of their relatives about their new jobs.

"I didn't tell my mum that I'm working at KTV. She thinks that I'm working as a sales girl in a supermarket," Cherry says.

-- 'Our girls even include university graduates' --

Many of the girls working in Yangon's KTV bars have come from Myanmar's impoverished countryside in search of better opportunities in the city.

The bar that employs Cherry and Kay Kay provides them with free room and board, and a base salary of 20,000 kyats, or about 18 dollars.

"The basic salary is similar to what I earned at the factory, but here we get tips from customers," Cherry says. "Sometimes we earn 30,000 kyats (25 dollars) in one night just from the tips."

The women are not allowed to leave the bar before its 2:00 am closing time, and then they are driven back to the hostel.

In a nation that prides itself on the glories of its past and its literary culture, the growth of the entertainment industry has caused some public soul-searching.

One poet, who wrote about the trend in a poem called "Yangon Nights," said poverty was not the only culprit driving young women to their after-hours jobs.

"As many of them are uneducated and don't value their life, so they eventually end up in this community," he told AFP, speaking on condition of anonymity.

But Wine, who worked as a cashier in a music restaurant, said that even some professional women are turning to the nightlife for second jobs to help make ends meet.

"The girls working in our shop include schoolgirls, nurses who are available to work at night and university graduates," Wine said, adding that she started working at the restaurant after twice failing her high school graduation exam and being unable to find any other job.

"Many friends of mine work in KTVs or music pubs while also taking university correspondence courses," she said.

The stigma attached to the bar girls remains strong, and many parents would rather see their children join the millions of Myanmar migrants heading overseas to search for work.

"My youngest daughter wanted to work in a KTV bar. I did not allow her, because once she takes the step of working there, it becomes very easy for her to become a commercial sex worker. It's very hard to control," said Ei, a 59-year-old mother of two daughters.

Ei says that like many families here, hers is struggling to survive. But she would rather see her daughters try to find work overseas than let them work in a karaoke bar.

Cherry and Kay Kay say they are happy they make enough money to support their families without having to leave the country.

"I can support my family well. One of my brothers will graduate from university very soon," says Cherry.

"I don't need to work very hard like I did in the factory but you know customers treat us just as bar girls, they look down on us. The reputation of a bar girl is not so good in this community."

6 comments:

Anonymous said...

I do not think it has to do with the economy, that is a decision the "mothers make on behalf of their daughters for selfish convenience", why don't they go instead of sending their daughters?

Now I understand the "separation" boys vs girls, the girls are considered inferior to the boys, the boys deserve and education, the girls must support them in comfort.

I wonder if the boys will remember the sacrifice their sisters made for them so they could obtain their well "deserved" degrees...

Were the girls given a choice?

The lady from the article that said
"My youngest daughter wanted to work in a KTV bar. I did not allow her, because once she takes the step of working there, it becomes very easy for her to become a commercial sex worker. It's very hard to control," said Ei, a 59-year-old mother of two daughters.

There are alternatives when people with values want to survive in the hardest situations, they manage to find alternative ways to prostitution or slavery.

စမ said...

ဒါေတြကေတာ့ျဖစ္ေနမွာဘဲ၊သို ့ေပမဲ ့သူတို ့ေတြတကယ္တမ္းစိတ္ပါလို ့ဘဲလုပ္လုပ္၊ စိတ္မပါဘဲလုပ္လုပ္၊ အားလံုးကိုေတာ့ထိုက္ထိုက္တန္တန္ေတာ့သူမ်ားတကာေတြ( သူမ်ားနိုင္ငံေတြကဲ့သို ့ေသာ) လိုေတာ့ရေစခ်င္ျဖစ္ေစခ်င္တယ္။

ေနာက္ျပီး ဒီလိုလုပ္ကိုင္စားေသာက္ေနေသာသူေတြကိုလည္း ခြဲျခားမဆက္ဆံသင့္ဘူး၊ အေတြးေခၚဘာမွျမင့္ျမတ္ျခင္းမရိွဘဲ ၀ါးေခါင္းထဲမွာအတင္းကိုယ္လူမ်ဳိးမွကိုယ္လူမ်ဳိးဆိုျပီးေတာ့အတင္းလိုက္ျပီး ၾကီးက်ယ္ျမင့္ျမတ္ျပေနေသာ၊ေျပာေနေသာသူေတြေကာ၊အရာရာကို ကိုယ္တိုင္မလုပ္နိုင္ေသာခဲ့ဘဲ၊ပါးစပ္ကေနရြတ္ဖတ္ေျပာဆိုေနၾကေသာသူေတြေကာ၊ နားလည္သင့္ျပီဆိုတာထက္၊အိပ္ခ်င္ေယာင္ေဆာင္ေနတာကနိုးၾကေတာ့လို ့ဘဲေျပာခ်င္ပါျပီ၊ တိုင္းျပည္မွာဘာေတြျဖစ္ေနျပီလည္းဆိုတာကို ၀ိုင္းျပီးလုပ္ရင္လုပ္၊ မလုပ္ဘဲေဘးကေနစာအုပ္ထဲကအေၾကာင္းေတြကို ရြတ္ဖတ္ေျပဆို ေနၾကမယ္ဆိုရင္ေတာ့နားေတာ့၊ အားလံုးအတြက္ေနရာတစ္ခုရိွတယ္၊ရိပ္သာဆိုေသာေနရာကုိသြားျပီးေနၾကေတာ့၊

ၾကိုက္သလိုနဲ ့ၾကိုက္သလိုက္ေသာအေတြးေတြ၊အေျဖ ေတြေပးၾကနိုင္ပါတယ္။ ကြ်န္ေတာ္တို ့လည္းရဲရဲၾကီး
ကိုယ္လုပ္ေသာအမႈ ့ကိုကိုယ္ရဲရဲၾကီးတာ၀န္ယူရဲပါတယ္၊
ဗမာျပည္ကိုေကာင္းစားခ်င္ရင္တစ္ခုေသာလမ္းဘဲရိွတယ္ ၾကိုက္ခ်င္ၾကိုက္မၾကိုက္ခ်င္လည္းေနဗ်ာ၊ လုပ္ရဲရင္ခံရဲေသာစိတ္ကိုအျပည့္၀ထားျပီၤးေတာ့ေျပာတာပါဘဲ၊

Myint Yee said...

Jeg, At least it is better than being a slave in a foreign country you don't know. That's their thinking.
It was also because they didn't have good education. They couldn't afford both time and money even for the basic education. In order to leave the country and continue further education, the basic education you got from Junta is not enough. You need to enhance the knowledge and skill in variety of areas such as Science, English and Math. You then take the exams like TOEFL, IELTS, LCCI, GCE O and A, SAT, etc. If you cannot do these, it's impossible to land nicely in a foreign country.
Or they can become a low-paid labor in a foreign country. The choices are a family's slave for girls and construction worker for guys for example. For girls, their future is unpredictable. What if they get abusive family and sex crazy man in there? While they cannot speak their language well, most likely they are in their country illegally. Then, who is gonna come help them? That is why, a lot of girls rather work in those industries in Burma and be with their own family.
The sad part for me having no choices, even for college graduates. You will see a lot of them in other countries like Japan, Hong Kong and Singapore. Majority of them are working illegally in industries that their nationals do not want to do. It is because Burmese Degrees are not recognized as World's standard.
You have seen that Junta are filthy rich. But, they do not try to improve the standard of education and quality of lives with the economy while they are in the ownership of those major sectors. If they had improved the quality of education and run the economy well, lives of Burmese girls wouldn't have been this bad.

Unknown said...

everything we do in life may not be our choice. sometimes, we are forced to do what we may not want or to expect what we may not intend. if we are not lucky enough to have good education when we grow up, then we are at higher risk of choosing unwillingly the path which may lead to greater danger. I hope everyone sees the persuasion of Aung San Suu Kyi "Use your liberty to promote others"." It is time for us to help those unfortunate and give them second chance.

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